10 Big Days, Super-6 Sunday in Suits Microeconomy, Black Suits Often, Finally- Draft Day! done

This is what I imagine as black suit guy, not Will Smith. In reality, its a darker charcoal with light silver hatching. The hat, yeah, I get comments.

There’s no sense fighting about the number of guys asking for black suits as wrong, I’m just glad there are plenty available for proms/wedding time. We’ve actually run strong since mid-March.

For those currently in the market for buying a suit or dress-up clothes, communicating information is my long-time talent. I’ve always been a 42 Regular, 16-34/35 for shirt, more 34 than 35 waist, so its not magic to suggest things for guys based on similar size necks and shoulders.

My operating style is to put a jacket on guys for sizing purposes early. Lets see what we’re working with, then do plus-minus and options by merchandise. People often give me overviews of an event need or circumstance. Some admit its been a while between suits, that’s not a big deal.

What do they already have, is it maybe for upcoming interviews, that sets the scene some. Do they have any unique considerations for sport coat or suit color? Yes, IMHO, a charcoal is more flexible.

As I finished ringing up a final transaction in the dark (3x lately) because store was officially closed, the Dad who pulled the trigger on his son’s 36 Short Hugo Boss because jacket fit soooo well was proof of mission Goodness. ‘I guess we can come back another time for a shirt and tie,’ (they did) with a smile was an affirmation of my expertise and belief people appreciate my Q&A style and mission accomplished outcomes.

FYI- Panthers #1 pick was Morgan Freeling, an offensive lineman from Georgia. GM Dan Morgan says they’ll challenge him at all positions vs. declare him a RT/LT. Rounds 2,3 are today, 4-7 are Saturday. https://www.espn.com/nfl/draft2026/story/_/id/48453161/carolina-panthers-nfl-draft-picks-2026-selection-analysis-depth-chart In 2025, Morgan’s draft was rated A+ by PFF, is the defense benefitting from ‘best available’?

Oh, you need a lighter-colored summer gray suit in two days? Its a good feeling when someone tells me a weight/sense of relief has been gained because their greatest problem was mitigated professionally. Golf-wise, alterations is a solid club to have in bag when moving along the buy-sell process. Nailed that attitude 3-4x this weekend. .

A Personal Best Six Suits-Coats Sunday says Microeconomy is All Right- ‘Seasonably Adjusted Terrific’

The last three pay periods have figured out to about $28/hour, but as a BoomerwithAttitude, keeping my personal time in mornings available for lifestyle (tennis matches, bike rides, lunches, writing sessions, volunteering) beyond 33-35 hours, I’m glad to welcome Spring conditions of warmth, Carolina sunshine, and weddings. Being aware of my relative safety walking in Myers Park, within the sound of pickleball plocks! and current economic situation in Charlotte v. Others in many places of the world, is gratefully accepted.

Chatting about choices for the guys and whatever upcoming Social Goodness requires is a legitimate investment of everyone’s effort.

The Oliva cigar one of sales guys provided for my handling a client coming in for choice/getting altered for blue suit is appreciated, a welcome civility of Thank you-plus. Working current retail schedule, I’m convinced I have the story-telling function of a barber regarding civility. Having gained clutch, productive employment at a time of significant upheaval, I like providing positive outcomes, so Yay! for the weddings and prom attendees needing matching ties.

Helping someone buy a suit is a solid $$$ alternative for a semi-retired sixty-nine year old sports and Romance Writer, getting OMG! situations saved is pretty affirming overall, nailing some gnarly timing factors and getting sincere thanks, da nada.

Good Try-er On-ers

I’ll explain CLOSE or tight terminology for choices, especially shirts. ‘Tight’ is something you’re aware of all the time, too short or long at wrist is obvious, big shoulders vs. smaller waists is often in the suit equation. Close is how Bugachi’s should fit. FYI- Trim is taking most of two handfuls of cloth from waist.

Results is where communication and getting good Try-er On-ers comes through. Oh, so not 33? Try the blue pants, they’re 34s…Some say Millar is boxier, but they have lots of product to like, and space around this area to make alterations. Lets see how 46 looks…Moving things along with yay or nay decisions for options, its always about how the jacket feels, then the math of pants.

Cole and his Mom

Being alone as the Closer (late shift) is a great time for guys to shop. If they invest decent time in situation 1-1, or even with another person around- my history in sales and journalism is as communicator who does excellent Q&A. There’s no reason it has to be a frustrating situation to get results in.

A second customer can watch how I put a jacket on someone, or hear how I explain sizing. IMHO, acknowledge the customer, and they’ll watch how I’m taking care of someone and infer/understand they’ll get exactly the same attention. Its fine to flex a little and ask extra customers about elements that can be discussed while making decisions with Customer #1. If they go to changing rooms, you have my attention.

With Cole, knowing he was thirty pounds from his usual playing weight (baseball pitcher) of 220, the point was having a great suit to wear here and now, and surprise! an off the rack 42 Regular Hugo Boss nailed all the gentleman’s dimensions. The extra was providing two bingo! shirts that he and Mom both found excellent matches (a third not available), and taking in the slight extra in back of jacket can be done after prom.

Service aspect of shepherding someone through things goes to a mutual bottom line- those who try stuff on are sure about having the right size, so I take a lot less returns overall. We *know* these are right, he tried them on. The purple tie with lavender shirt option for Cortland’s midnight blue suit took him no extra time to decide once presented, the kicker is knowing whats worked many times before.

I’m smiling about Mom being okay with sneakers he’ll wear with suit Saturday night, because we’d collectively GSD on everything else.

Product knowledge and presentation earn trust, congratulating guys for working through different sizes and options is legit. Ending with a conversation about my years as a Little League umpire and his power pitching and upcoming season after Tommy John surgery-recovery, yeah, swapping stories with guys like a barber works for me.

Getting to final instructions about pickup- ‘and zero $ for alterations’- IMHO, that’s just best practices, a solid, bill-paying part of my microeconomy, far from Iran.

I’m looking forward to continuing to help everyone buying a suit, hope the Peter Millar and Jack Victor suits from Canada keep rolling, I want the best variety of suit-selling ammo for my stylish and coachable clients.

A New Normal blog, minus retail microeconomy and Mom in Hospice

Hospice worked the way it was intended for us. Mom ate and chattered well, even gained weight the last two months. I got to take vacation!

Didn’t see the Panthers being 0-6 into October, but on August trip to upstate NY – specifically Saratoga races and a $1200 Monday night at blackjack table – I was physically and mentally feeling brilliant, even happy.

Get some mental health like that when you can. Social Goodness still counts.

A trifecta winner (+230) had me buying dinner wine, and a good night of blackjack didn’t launch a new microeconomy, but I’ve decided to officially rejoin some Social Goodness in America.

Being noticed for haberdashery at 66 was affirming, because dressing well is a Saratoga tradition. I wasn’t a Gatsby costumed dandy, but a definite upgrade from tees and shorts, frat guy reunions with cigars, pork pie hats and horn rim-topped Maui Jims as a standard.

Thankfully, after a year in the closet, muscle memory checked out well golf-wise. I played a lot of shots for nine holes, with two balls and no scorecard on a long, wide, familiar course. It was a perfect 76 degree-two beer TUESDAY (93 in Charlotte) and work wouldn’t start again for a week.

Vacation had a kind of ‘cut-above’ feeling Christian McCaffrey must walk around with (except he’s so modest). He was so damn good here, that 1000-1000 year. He’s looking like MVP material in San Fran (currently +1400). *I* never said ‘injury prone.’

What felt incredibly New Normal enjoyable in late August, became a positive attitude worth pursuing. So I did. Naaah, I’m not retired, more ‘Full time writer and gig economy consultant’ now. #cdtalententerprises #sportswriter

Myself, 8/26/23 Officially rejoining in some extensive Social Goodness in America

Four Betting Truths – The Value in a Trifecta

  • When there are several equally good horses (3-5- or 2-1 favorites) in a race, its legitimate to try trifecta boxes ($12). Don’t try to figure out two best and win or place bets, take another horse – or hot jockey – that pays a price. In the Alabama, Edwin Rosario (#10) at 14-1 booted home the third place horse I needed by a nose. He won all three times I played him that day.
  • Buy and read the pink sheets, 5 min. to Post Time, they’re a buck. Whomever wrote the thumbnail sketches, at least it gives you a sense of info you lacked before. After a couple races, Saratoga usually has 11-12 races a day, check results – maybe you’ve got someone who knows a little.
  • Always back up your top choices with place bets.
  • Always be glad to buy the wine or split a check with your bro or bestie when you’re even a decent, on vacation winner. Lasagna at Wheatfields and touring a well-lighted, exciting looking city after track was terrific.

Appreciated decent chats with many, let several ladies know how to bet on more than a horses name. Gave one gent Truth #1 above, “…and with those two favorites, I’m looking for value, or my man Rosario.” He thought there’d be something more technical about how to bet, but its still the juice of getting paid for being right.

Definitely a $25 tip for dealer!

At legendary Siro’s Friday night, I arrived early, in soft, light mint-green jacket, gray Baker slacks, yellow with blue grid shirt, brown-gold tie, polished shoes, and my Good Hat. Outdoor areas filled up in 25 minute after last race . I had a split of Moet while waiting, then got pulled onto freestylin’ dancing area by a curvy lady in sleek black and a curvy hat.

Neither a trifecta winner at Saratoga nor those purple chips had any impact on ending my retail career at Nordstroms. I had carried a refreshed and winning Attitude forward post-vacation, finishing with eight straight days of getting at least one suit. Cashing chips did involve buying a new basketball, a positive marker I utilize regularly.

Sunshine as therapy is organic and easy. WINNING, gotta say – I also beat my 6’4″ buddy in ’21’ by muscling up on him the last few points – is always better than alternative in my book. Oh yeah! I finished book #2 in August too. https://www.wattpad.com/story/218725526-a-triple-shot-of-karma-platinum-fury-focus

Finishing a book does a lot for mental health, and gaining another $40/hr. gig for my journalistic expertise and creative writing is still the 2023 business plan for this #BoomerwithAttitude.

Yay! I went looking to maximize social experiences a lot on this road trip, and doing more often in Real Life! I don’t imagine I’m the singlular person changing attitudes from defense to offense, socially speaking.

Hospice, more than just end game situation

My mother, Ernel Margaret Shorkey, 89, passed the end of September, and while Hospice is often viewed as an end game situation, my taking her out on warm days to read in gazebo, or morning visits, up until the last week, dropping off flowers, that’s what our family will remember.

Administratively, having protocols in place with Hospice – Mom was a DNR – she had a good relationship with her support staff, we relied on their attention to my loved one.

We’d recently seen an open-eyed Mom, who chatted along for quite a few weeks, I’ve got the videos. The underlying fact of Hospice giving our family time to celebrate and prepare, yes, we lived #NewNormal then too. Being there at the end, feeling she heard us say it was okay to go, I’ll send a moment of such peace to the many who didn’t get that during COVID.

We’ll gather again down in Tampa soon, to bring her back to her people – Mom & Dad Sevigny, her sisters Jo and Elinor, Uncle Frank and my Dad. I had to include Mom here, what a difference a day makes. I got several pieces of furniture, mostly stuff Dad made, plus a two seater couch that unfolds to a bed. I’ll show the video of her thinking my phone was a piece of pie often, all the way to hearing the crunch of her biting it.